"Understanding Love and Chemistry
When it comes time to find someone that you want to settle down with, you may wonder what the difference is between love and chemistry. There is actually a big difference between the two, but a lot of people still get them confused on a daily basis. In order to have a fulfilling life and relationship, you need to understand what the differences are and understand the need to have both of them in your relationship. If you do not have both of them together, then the relationship will eventually become a toxic thing for the both of you and you will end up having spent a lot of your time miserable. You do not want that, so read on to see the differences between the two.
One thing that people need to understand when it comes to love and chemistry is that they are not one and the same. Love is something that you feel deep in your heart and soul. You wake up thinking about that person and you spend most of your day thinking about them when you are away from them. Chemistry is not that deep. Chemistry is more how physically attracted you are to the other person.
A lot of women can mistake the yearning to have intimacy with a guy for love. They think that because they want to be with them in that way, it means that they love them. It is simply not true.
Not understanding love and chemistry can wreak havoc on your emotions. When you think that someone is in love with you, but truly you two just have good chemistry together, you may become confused when the relationship ends. You will be brokenhearted because you thought the person loved you. What you need to do in this case is pick yourself up and evaluate what happened. Chances are you will see just how much the other person did not love you and you will be better prepared for the next relationship.
Of course, it is not always easy to understand the differences between love and chemistry. That is why the dating game can be so heartbreaking at times. You think that everything is going well and that you both love each other and then the break-up happens. The only thing you can do then is to evaluate what went wrong and how you missed all the signs that the other person did not love you. Only then will you be able to truly tell if it is love or just chemistry.